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writes:So, i fell for this girl and it was the biggest mistake of my life because when she found it hard to have a long distance relationship she broke up with me. 3 days later she got a new boyfriend and it hurt me, really did kill me inside that i couldnt help but cry. i told her how i felt and she said she still loves me shes still in love with me she just cant have that sort of relationship because its hard. and now when shes with her new boyfriend she can never be bothered to text me, she says she cant help it. She still has me wrapped around her little finger and kissing her feet because i love her so she can play me along. What should i do? Should i walk out of her life and just try my hardeset to forget her or should i stay as it is and hope one day she takes me back?
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reader, tennisstar88  +, writes (27 October 2010):
 If you stay there's no telling how long you will be waiting? Maybe till the end of time. The thing you need to realize is that you are long distance..she can't handle a LDR..to top it off she got a replacement 3 days later after she dumped you! It's definitely over. What you need to do is cut off contact with her, block her from Facebook any accounts, delete her number or change your number if need be. You have to erase her from your life, it's obvious you don't have a place in her's anymore. Definitely not the end of the world, my friend. There are women out there who can commit to LDRs and even ladies in your area that are single and ready to mingle. You said yourself this girl was a mistake, now correct it.
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reader, Blod +, writes (27 October 2010):
 I think it's time to move on. She doesn't seem interested. LDRs are difficult and you need to be commited for it to work. If she can't handle it, then it's probably because it doesn't mean enough to her. If she makes no effort to get in touch with you, why should you waste your time on her? Especially when she's found a boyfriend to replace you with! So I think you should try to move on. Getting her out of your life would be the easiest way, and it shouldn't be too difficult to cut contact with her if you live far apart. It will be hard but it's not fair on you to be treated this way. Good luck.
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