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*iboyjase
writes:Hi i'm 14 and think i am bi.I want to lose my virginity, but i don't know where to meet someone at my age. Also i have been talking to someone on msn who is gay and 17 and say they will help me lose it, but he doesn't live near me, though he did say he would meet me by where i live. But i don't know where i can have sex with him, my house or a friends house is off limits,so where?
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reader, mervy  +, writes (28 October 2010):
 If you don't have somewhere, and someone to lose your virginity with, then you probably shouldn't be. No matter how uncool it is to be 13-15 and still a virgin.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 October 2010): Bad idea. Do you even know who this guy is?
Your 15 or younger. Why do you need to? Save it for someone you care about and will actually respect you. Youll realise how silly you sound when your older.
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reader, emi cheeze  +, writes (28 October 2010):
ok listen your 14 y would you want to lose your v. you have your whole life ahead of you and if you wait you could have real love not just help from a freind your probably just eager and curious but do your self a favor and wait for love if your pationt it will come dont worry ok! :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 October 2010): why do you want to lose your virginity so badly?
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 October 2010): Even if you are bi, losing your virginity at age 14 is a huge mistake! My biggest piece of advice is to not do this. I truly believe you will regret this. I realize teenagers of urges that are hard to overcome, but you need to overcome this urge at all costs. You are too young to be engaging in sex with people you don't know. And what if you actually aren't bi, and you do it for your first time with someone of the same sex? This could be catastrophic in your life. I strongly urge you to NOT do this.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 October 2010): Off the record...you may want to wait to lose your virginity. that is a very special thing. and once you lose it, you will never get it back. You should lose your virginity to someone you love and loves you back...........
back on the record...you could have sex in this guys car.
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reader, iSmil3y +, writes (28 October 2010):
I'm going to be honest with you, that's very dangerous. I don't think you should meet anyone, anywhere to do anything especially if you've just met him online. People have gotten raped and killed by people they meet online and try to meet in public. If anything, take an adult with you but I don't think you should do it at all. It's seriously dangerous.
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reader, Sensesfail101 +, writes (28 October 2010):
I honestly think you should wait for the special person!!!!!! U r only 14 and I know when I was 14 I wanted to lose mine too but I waited until I was18, and it was with someone I love. Enjoy ur life while ur young, I know I sound like I'm lecturing but I speak from experience!!! Hang out with friends while u still got them!!
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reader, Johnny2301 +, writes (28 October 2010):
 First of all, losing your virginity is not something that should be treated as a commodity. If you are truly ready to lose your virginity, then you will be a responsible and mature person in finding that someone to share your moment with. Now, presuming your age is indeed 13-15, most people, including myself, will recommend that you wait. At this age your emotions are probably running wild and you are probably unable to think things through with true reason.
That aside, let us assume this is still something you wish to go through with. You should be extremely cautious about meeting people online for any reason, particularly sexual encounters. It is very easy for a person to lie about who they are on the internet. Although you think you are chatting with a 17 year old male, you may actually be chatting with a 47 year old male that has been convicted of multiple sexual offenses in the past--or worse. For your own safety you should refrain from meeting people online in this manner. You should at the minimum meet such an individual in an extremely public location to verify his or her identity before moving forward with anything.
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