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writes:Can someone give me some advice? I've always been a person that will be honest in a relationship. I think its a good attribute to have just so there are never anything to worry about, coming back to haunt me, etc...I have been very honest with my girlfriend of a 6 months, and she accepted, and never questioned a bit of my honesty. Upon being honest, is it natural to be worried that something I may have been honest about, that she may tell someone or something, or do you just trust her word that she'll keep something personal between you and her?Am I nuts for worrying about this? Reply to this Question
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reader, jodie-alice-x  +, writes (27 October 2010):
 I've always said to only trust your family...
As for me it's ALWAYS come back and slapped me round the face like a wet fish unless it's been those closest to me (i.e family).
But if you honestly consider that you two could be together for a real long time and NOT hurt her or dump her horribly, you should be fine! (Y)
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 October 2010): I don't know what your being honest about, but if you talk too much about your past, and don't want others to know about it, zip it. Keep your mouth shut, and stop using your GFs as a therapist and unloading on them. You are kidding yourself that you say you are simply being an honest, noble, open person. Your dumping your emotional baggage on someone else: If you need therapy, get therapy. It will also prevent your from worrying about that "experimental" or "sexual confusion" stage as a teenager won't end up posted on a social network. Peace.
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (27 October 2010):
 You're not nuts, but you have to understand that, once it leaves your mouth, it can become public domain.
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reader, mizz.butterflies  +, writes (27 October 2010):
 its ok to worry but if u worry u shouldnt have told her in the first place.
dont forget
honesty is good when requested.
what do i mean? if ur honest about everything and tell her everything then the mystery will be gone. she will start seeing u and treating u like a friend.
so be careful!
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reader, mizz.butterflies +, writes (27 October 2010):
its ok to worry but if u worry u shouldnt have told her in the first place.
dont forget
honesty is good when requested.
what do i mean? if ur honest about everything and tell her everything then the mystery will be gone. she will start seeing u and treating u like a friend.
so be careful!
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