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*uperwoman18
writes:since my boyfriend started his apprenticeship 4 months ago he has never set foot in my house, i always have to go down to him. which until yesterday never bothered me. it was my birthday yesterday and he never even made the effort to appear. am a over reacting or should he be making an effort as well, i just don't know what to do any more, i still love him, i just can't be bothered making an effort if he isnt. what should i do? thanks x Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 October 2010): Trust your instincts. If he doesn't make time to see you, he's loosing interest. All guys who are intrested will always want to see you. Guys make out time for things they want and people they love.
Grantd sometimes he may be busy, but to forget your birthday is a huge red flag. Just like guys who claim they don't celebrate valentines day and birthdays. They will for the right girl...the girl of their dreams.
Don't waste anymore time with this man. you should stop calling texting or any contact. Men speak to women by their actions NOt their words. If he is acting like someone who wants to be left alone...then pay attention and move on.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (27 October 2010):
I'd agree with the post below. Is there anything you might be overlooking? Like is he phoning you and such. It's obvious that his apprenticeship has taken over, so this is something that you need to talk to him about pretty quickly. I'd tell him how you feel, take other things into account and see what he says. Then make a decision about whether you want to end it or not.
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reader, Jmtmj  +, writes (27 October 2010):
 Is he making an effort in other ways that you could have overlooked? I don't think you're over reacting at all. Feeling like you're in a one sided relationship can really suck as you can start to think- "whats the point in trying", and that's a slippery slope towards breaking up.
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