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*achaparritax19
writes:I am a very jelous girl. and i think my boyfriend is getting tired of that, and he thinks i don´t trust him. what should i do ?
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reader, lachaparritax19 +, writes (4 November 2010):
lachaparritax19 is verified as being by the original poster of the question he hasnt really gave me a reason to not trust him. but i do trust him its just that he thinks that i dont. and i love him and everything, maybe im just scared that he will leave me for another girl.. cuz a lot of girls are wanting to go out with him or to just mess with him. ugh i dont kno what to think or do! help me please
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reader, lachaparritax19 +, writes (3 November 2010):
lachaparritax19 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you so much to all of you. be sure that i will take all of you guys advice. thank youu!
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 October 2010): You shouldn't be jealous until he gives you a reason to be.
Being jealous can push someone away, and i know you don't want that. Try to trust him and things will get better.
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reader, kbdd  +, writes (28 October 2010):
 you have to have a reason to not trust him, has he given you a reason not to? If not, then work on it with him talk to him. dont attack him but find out why, with whom make sure he knows what you do and dont like. But if it isnt reasonable, considerable from both sides then leave it alone You have to pull your self together and say why would he cheat on me? and hold it inside around him. Dont blow it up cause trust me youll lose him.
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reader, UnfinishedSymphony  +, writes (28 October 2010):
 you need to ask yourself what is making you feel this jealousy? maybe it might be down to the fact that you are indeed what one would class as a jealous person in general. don't be too hard on yourself though. its what makes us human.
my advice is that you sit down with him and talk to him about how your feeling. to be honest, if he told you that the way in which you're acting is putting him off you...this might act as your wake up call. things could then be put into action to help you become less jealous; if you think the relationship is worth the effort.
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reader, Moo's Mum  +, writes (27 October 2010):
 You have got to put the hard yards in and work on eliminating your jealousy. Be up front with your boyfriend and tell him you know how your jealously is affecting the relationship and work out something he can do when you are coming on too strong. E.g he could say "I'm going to leave you alone for a while till you cool off and see sense." Then he should leave and let you sort your own head out. Talk to other people about how you feel and get some ideas on how to deal with this. Friends Mum's are a great source of advice and help. The bottom line is that this problem wont go away by itself you are going to have to work hard on it for yourself.
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