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male
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41-50,
anonymous
writes:when i am with my sex partner, My liquid is falling quickly, my partner has not got satisfaction with my sex, pls. advice , what i do Reply to this Question
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reader, Nithyanala  +, writes (28 October 2010):
 It's possible to learn self-control over a period of time. Another thing you can do is to stop thrusting actively when you're close and think about boiled beans or anything unsexy. Stop-and-start is what it's called I think.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 October 2010): Your best bet is to go down on her and make her come with your tounge before penetration. Or use your fingers and toys. Once she comes, it won't really matter that the sex was 2 minutes. But try slowing down.e having sex and you are close to coming, try stopping and waiting until the feeling passes before continuing. My BF lasts long but he always makes me come first with his mouth and fingers. Sometimes I come with sex but RARELY
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 October 2010): numbing creams, thicker condoms, less foreplay, more foreplay on HER, etc.
You might also set up a "system" of letting her know when you're close so she can back off whatever she is doing at the time. I've heard some woman can even employ kegal muscles in such a way to prevent a guy from cumming too soon in some cases...maybe she can work on this.
But I agree...key to her pleasure is maybe not your penis. You have other toys in the toybox...tongue, fingers, vibrators, etc.
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female
reader, Gabrielle Stoker  +, writes (27 October 2010):
 'Liquid is falling quickly', eh? Well I like 2-minute men myself but I realize a lot of women don't. Your best bet is to please her with your tongue or a toy before you penetrate.
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reader, followtheblackrabbit  +, writes (27 October 2010):
 I read that if you masturbate a few hours before sex, you can last longer. Some men also try and force themselves to think about things that aren't sexually exciting to last longer. One thing you can do is: give your partner a LOT of foreplay before you enter. Get her to have an orgasm by using your lips and hands (oral sex) and then, it won't matter much if you orgasm quickly.
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