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writes:hi,i just want to ask some information about something.When i was 14 years old i sleep with my boyfriend 17 years old that time and got positive 6 weeks. when my mother find it out she was very very angry and tell me theres no way for her to accept the situation since im still in high school and my boy friend is not even studying. my mother tried her best to explain to me whats going to happen and what is it to become a mother specially at that young age. i understand my mother anger and explain. she actualy explain it to me in a diplomatic way even i can feel how much she is against my pregnancy. it was 6 weeks so i decided not to continue it. i got abortion then. after abortion my mother teach me how to use birth control. i try to use it for 2 months and stop it since i dont like the feelings. but after i stop it i did not get my period for nearly 7 months, and i have lots of pimples come out in my face. i did not have contact to my boyfriend i actualy broke up with him. its just that i dont understand why i did not have my days. my mother said dont panic, relax and it will come back again. she is right after 8 months my period come back again. since then until now i have a regular period but still i have my pimples and its making me irritable. i was very thankful to my mother since she is very suportive specially in my emotion. but there is one question i can not easily ask to my mother and maybe you all here can help me. when i reach 20's i mean im now soon to be 18, but when the time come that i am ready for having relationship or someday when i get married, is there still a chance that i will get pregnant again? because im scared that the abortion i did before will affect me in the future. please give me some advice or imformation. please pleaseeee... thank you all
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reader, misLadYd..  +, writes (28 October 2010):
 you will get pregnant again but people are different.you can see a dr to make sure
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reader, Denise32  +, writes (28 October 2010):
 You probably could get pregnant again - but you need to go see a gynecologist and be throughly checked out to be sure.
One word of caution: when you meet a man you're really compatible with, get married and then get pregnant! Children need and deserve to have both parents taking care of them......
Good luck!
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reader, athena546 +, writes (28 October 2010):
Girl you should have gave it up for adoption not abortion I remeber when I got preganet evereybody hated me I was 5'9 and in the 7th grade this boy was so nice so we had sex and I got preganet I acutualy gave the baby up for adoption. So yes you can still have a baby
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reader, carebare  +, writes (28 October 2010):
You can definitely get pregnant again as soon as you start ovulating. Since you've already mentioned that your period has returned to normal, that's a pretty good sign that everything is fine and you shouldn't have any problem getting pregnant in the future. However, until then, remember to be safe and use protection.
Best.
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