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*il_liza321
writes:My mate and I fancy the same guy but there are rumors that he likes my mate. me and him are just friends and i dont want to ask him out myself. please help. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 October 2010): How close is your mate to you? Because this kinda situation could break friendships. Be carful if you persue. Sometimes your friends are more importent.
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reader, celtic_tiger  +, writes (27 October 2010):
 If he likes her and she likes him, then I dont think you stand a chance.
I think you may just have to accept that this is a no-goer. How is it fair on your friend, to pursue a guy who likes her, with the intention of trying to make him like you instead?
Surely the fact that he likes your friend instead of you should be enough of a signal to put you off.
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reader, Blod +, writes (27 October 2010):
 Well if you're not going to make a move and he doesn't fancy you, then chances are nothing will happen between you. If your friend and him like each other, then consider how you'd feel if they got together. You might be hurt to begin with if she knows that you also like him. But if you look at the chances of you being with him anyway, is there really any point in standing in their way?
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reader, Foxykingdom  +, writes (27 October 2010):
Well, if you really like him, i think you should tell him or else your friend will feel that you are not interested in love with him but to be just friend.or talk about him when your friend is around, you will find out if she is really into him.hope this help.
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