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writes:I'm in a 5yr. relationship with an super guy. He's everything that I could ask for in a man. He's a real man. But I am having a few problems with his female neighbor. She's an attractive black female, but he says that she's not his type and not to be jealous because nothing is going on. Let me remind you that she lives one house down from him. He lives in Georgia and I live in Alabama so we only see each other on weekends. She continuously calls him for whatever reason after I told her that if she see my car please do not call because we are handling our business but she called the other morning while we were in bed. I didn't say anything but he told me that you know who that was and I said "Yes". But didn't carry the conversation any further. I use to be jealous but he has assured me that there wasn't anything going on and don't be jealous. My question is should I confront her again and let her know that I don't appreciate her calliing my man. They both have kids so the kids play together and they communicate. So what do I do. It bothers me because I feel threaten by the relationship that they have. I did say that I was going to her and ask her for her man's number so I could call and text him..... confused... I am definitely in love and we are talking about getting married. Please Help.....
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (27 October 2010):
 I'm with Eyes. You don't have to be impolite or whatever, but Mr. Georgia has to say something like "I don't like this, please stop, this is my woman, I like her, don't call us while we're in bed, I wonder what crossed your mind when you called knowing we were at it, do you think I like it interruptus", et cetera.
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (27 October 2010):
 Yeah I think it's your boyfriend's turn to step up to bat. I don't think your boyfriend is the slightest bit interested in her but sounds like she might be setting her sights on him. He should nip this in the bud.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 October 2010): You've told her once not to call when she knows you're there because you don't get much time with your man. That's very fair, I think. Yet, she still continues to call when you're there. It seems like she's intentionally interrupting and then playing innocent like she had no idea.
It's time for your boyfriend to talk to her about this. It's fine that they get on well as neighbors and that their children play together, but this woman needs to respect boundaries when it comes to being intrusive in your relationship.
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