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writes:I am 16 and a sophmore in highschool. I am a bi guy. Nobody knows that I am bi. I have a huge crush on this guy. He doesnt know im bi, and I'm not sure if he is gay or bi. He takes every chance he has to hug me, and he said that I was cute. In our one class we have together, we also sometimes look into each others' eyes for like 5 seconds then we both look away. In the last few weeks, he touched my ear and smiled at me, he turned around to look at me and said "why are you staring at me?" and then laughed. And he said that he wanted to trade his half eaten peice of pizza with me, and said "come on, this is all me, you know you want it". He made a handshake with me that ends up him jacking off my thumb. He literaly bumped into me when he saw me in the hall. In the one class we have together, he asked me if i wanted to sit on his lap. He asked me if I wanted to go to the bathroom with him and that we could "sword fight". I kinda shyly ignored all of these because there are always too many people around.So, today I tried to just talk to him and he completely ignored me.... I tried to just stand by him and he didn't even acknowledge me....and now I am kinda getting upset. Do you think he is gay/bi? What do I do now?
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reader, AvgGuy1 +, writes (31 October 2010):
 I THINK you got your answer... without even asking. YOU now need to show some affection back.
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reader, Boonridge McPhalify  +, writes (31 October 2010):
 look as things are flowing dont put pressure on them, let it flow naturally, good luck x
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reader, Niko7 +, writes (30 October 2010):
Niko7 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionUpdate: Yesterday, I talked to him and he did something amazing - he grabbed my hand and just held it for a while. I know I should have asked him if he was gay or bi then, but I just can't get the nerve up...
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reader, AvgGuy1 +, writes (29 October 2010):
If he's touching you, smiling at you, staring at you and making fairly open suggestions to you... he's more thank likely really into you. At the very least he's Bi... like you... if not entirely gay.
Since you didn't really reciprocate... he probably got the idea that you weren't that interested in him.
You need to rekindle whatever it was you two had going so that you can take it another step further. YOU do the BUMPING into him thing. Sit next to him (really close if possible). 'Slug' him on the shoulder. Put your hand on his leg if you can get away with it.
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reader, Boonridge McPhalify +, writes (28 October 2010):
i think he is definitely gay, but if he was serious about toilet sex then he sounds promiscuous.
just ask him why he isn't being friendly anymore (he might be feeling rejected that you didn't agree to swordfight-childsih). anyway ask him what his problem is when no-one is around. and if no one is around try touching his arm when you say it, and make an effort to make eye contact.
good luck
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reader, Natalie:) +, writes (28 October 2010):
 The chances are that he is just a cheeky curious guy. The only way to know is to ask him!!!
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