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36-40,
anonymous
writes:I loved my husband more than anything but a few months after we got married he is no longer nice to me i've tried ignoring it and making light of it but its come to the point where i ignore him because i hate him yelling at me however he still says nasty things to me. I have tried talking to him but he says he is always just kidding but i don't think that is true. He is in the military and my only family is 3000 miles away financially they can not help me get away from him. We have just got to a new base and i cannot find a job to save my life i still have 2 yrs until i finish my degree i don't think i will last that long with him. I used to be soo happy i wormed full time went to school had friends and felt good about myself. But now i feel like dirt i feel like i am becoming depressed. What can i do i have no money and i told him i was leaving him today he flipped out and left. When he came back he said that he was going to tell security forces that i hit him i don't think they will believe him its not true and i told him they weren't going to believe him he said he went to the chaplin... not sure if any of this is true but now im afraid im going to get in trouble he's 10 times my size why would they believe him he would kill me if i dared hitting him. Please if anyone can give me advice or knows what he could do to me and if i can divorce him what can i do for money....i don't have anyone elses to help anything would help thank you
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 October 2010): i am sooo sorry to hear this, and you do have hope. there are alot of womens organizations that can help people in your situation. just remember that you are not alone. you should look up womens shelters on the internet or in the phone book and talk to them about your situation. they can help you financially and if anything get back to your family. he can't do anything to you without proof of you hitting him. don't believe his lies he is only trying to make you feel trapped. he doesn't want you to get him in trouble or leave him so he is trying to make you think you have no choice but to stay with him. don't fall for that. get on the phone tomorrow and find shelters near you that can help!
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 October 2010): you are in an abusive relationship. the police should help if it came to it, you could also get a restraining order once divorced.
if you want to stay with him talking to a councillor could help. it sounds like he could have anger management problems.
i am sorry i cant help you more
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