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writes: Recently me and a guy friend met up for drinks and i ended up staying over at his place. He has a girlfriend and nothing happened between us that night. The thing i find a bit odd is when we got to his we were a bit worse for wear me more so than him and we were sitting on the couch and he was hugging me really close and kept asking what i was thinking about, i didn't really know what to say so i just said "i don't know" but he kept asking "what are you thinking about?" and stroking my hair. He's done this before, asked me what i was thinking when we've been alone. Why keep asking?
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reader, mrvhappy  +, writes (27 October 2010):
Hi,I will try not to judge like some people...It all depends how he said it and the circumstances that her said it in.Do you think that hes interested in you?How drunk was he?Where was his GF?Maybe it was just a drunken comment, maybe he wants to take things further or maybe he was thinking of his GF?I know that some guys get a bit soppy when they are drunk....difficult one to guage without more info..sorry
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reader, Denise32  +, writes (27 October 2010):
 Indeed he should not. You'd be well advised to cut way back on your get-togethers with this guy friend - and ESPECIALLY not to go and spend the night at his place. That's just asking for trouble.
Use some good judgment.
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reader, slimfish  +, writes (27 October 2010):
 he wants to know how you feel about him and would you like to take things further. but he wont make a move till you give him the green light.
tell him how you think about that, do you want it to go further. if you don't want it, then don't put yourself in this position again.
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reader, dirtball +, writes (27 October 2010):
 Because he wants you to tell him you're thinking about what would happen if you two fooled around (basically the same thing he's thinking about). That would be the cue he wants for him to try something with you. He's basically trying to figure out if you're willing to fool around with him.
If he has a GF, he shouldn't be cuddling you like that.
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