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writes:my girlfriend is awsome. until a few months ago, we are constantly fighting and it sucks. she gets mad when i dont send her a txt message first to say "hey whats up?' i am a person who doesnt txt for no reason and i have told her that but she doesnt seem to listen, i think its ridiculas. one day she asked if she can come over and study and i said i wanted to study by myself today because i am in university and i had a test coming up, and she is upgrading bio 30 in highschool. she got so mad and blew things out of porportion and said i was screwing up her life. i tried to fix this by saying any other day is fine today to study with me. but she still gotso mad, and then she says i dont listen which is not true. i dont know what to do, i have tried talking to her but it doesnt work. i feel the spark is gone but i dont want it to be, i need some advice/help on this.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 October 2010): it seems like she wants to fight with you. And since you need to keep up with important things, like your studies you really don't have time for a immature girl. Maybe this relationship isn't meant to be. Don't you think you would be more relaxed and happier with someone who acted proper about things you need to get done? A relationship isn't about one person trying to please the other, a relationship is about thinking about eachothers needs. I think she should understand and respect your need of time alone. It seems to me your putting in most of the work while she is wanted more and more from you.
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reader, dirtball  +, writes (27 October 2010):
 You have a couple options. You can wait it out and hope she matures, or you can walk away. Really, all that text BS is just looking for drama. She sounds like a drama queen to me and I couldn't take that crap. I think your best bet is to walk away. If she's not willing to address the problem and at least talk about it like an adult, then there is little that you can do to change anything.
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