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writes: do guys take rejection to heart.becasue a guy asked me out and i said no.this was few years ago.and i meet him recently and he still mad at me becasue i said when he asked me.i actually did like the guy but i didn,t know if he saw me as friend or girlfriend? Reply to this Question
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reader, Hasden  +, writes (7 May 2009):
 Yes, It's very very hurt
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 March 2009): Yeah...it hurts...alot
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reader, Dr Vendetta  +, writes (2 March 2009):
 A rejection is nothing more than the person saying " i'm not good enough for you, you can and will do better as i will only screw your life up"
works like a charm.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 March 2009): orginal post:
he said i was total bitch to him and i don,t i was,we were always laughing and having fun.i was surprised he said i was total to him.i remember slaging him and teasing him but he was teasing me too.but never bitch to him.
i wrote him and i said i was sorry and be nasty to him which something i don,t remenber doing.and i said i liked him.and he was nice to me when others weren,t ,i thought he was male model when i saw him.and i said to him in email i though he wouldn,t talk when i saw first.then again he was ladies man and he had new girl all the time.he tons girls always around him. so i din,t what to think .that what i told and its the truth
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 March 2009): original post:
he said i was total bitch towards him.i don,t remember nasty to him.i actual like the guy.we were always laughing and fun.i wasn,t mean to him.but he said i was.
i emailed him.and i told him i didn,t mean to be rotten to him and told him i liked him.and i was sorry .
was that a good idea or bad idea.
can some one tell me
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reader, ArmyMedic +, writes (2 March 2009):
 Ok as you have seen from other answers guys take rejection to heart, but not all guys take it so badly, to still be "mad at you" after all this time, maybe he's over reacting.
Most guys who get rejected, feel a bit down for a while and then move on, but if he's still sulking after a period of years is he really that much of a great loss.
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reader, Plutonious  +, writes (2 March 2009):
Guys can be sensitive. This one is obviously sensitive about the rejection a few years back.
If you want to clear the air with him then let him why you rejected him then. Maybe that will help him too.
And who says there ISN'T a second chance to find out "what could have been?" "or what may come?"
if you still feel that way.
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reader, Ted-ster +, writes (2 March 2009):
Oh, yeah, guys egos are fragile.
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reader, jessica04 +, writes (2 March 2009):
 Yes, guys are very sensitive. I once broke up with a rebound guy to get back with my ex in H.S. and he still hasn't really forgiven me, and its been 6 years.
Of course, I feel awful for stringing him around, and I can't believe I did such a thing. Be careful with boys, it takes a lot for them to openly admit they like a gal just because the threat of rejection is so big and ego-crushing.
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reader, 10022391 +, writes (2 March 2009):
they most certainly take it to heart
i had a girl who liked me for a period of time. i asked her out but she didnt respond till the next day when i texted her. she refused causing me to go through massive amounts of sadness because i really liked the girl
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 March 2009): Yes.
It always hurts. If didn't we would be rocks. sigh. (women when will they understand we bleed too)
you could have asked him... or if both free now you could try again....
Hugs Star.x.
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