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writes:Hi, im only 14 and i dont care if people say 'your too young to be in love'. I am. I am really confused about me and this boy. We have been out a few times, and they didnt work out. We still both love eachother, but we are scared to try it again. He told me we should move on, but that killed us, so we gave up that idea. Also, other girls and boys get inbetween us two. I really don't know what to do and i am so confused. Can anybody give me any advice on what i should do please. I really do love him and i really want to make this work. Thanks.
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reader, Tisha-1  +, writes (2 March 2009):
 Could you be more specific about how "things didn't work out?" Those words are in the passive tense, which usually means that someone is trying to avoid assigning 'blame', which I would call responsibility. What didn't work? Who did what to whom? How can people come in between you?
He has thoughts and feelings and behavior. You have thoughts and feelings and behavior. What is that isn't working?
I know you don't want to be told you're too young, but you are proving the point to a certain extent. You're confused and uncertain because someone is still not mature or grown up enough to act in a certain way. It's just not clear from your question who that is, him or you or both of you.
Until you can articulate what it is specifically that is wrong in your relationship, no one is going to be able to give much advice.
Talk calmly, listen carefully, don't leap to conclusions, be true to yourself, act with integrity. Those are the pieces of advice I have for you based on the content of your question. I do hope things become clearer to you.
Take care.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 March 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionhmmm, i dont know where that first answer came from, well you need to talk to him, me and my well kind of land are going through the same thingg, its scary actually how alike it is, It helps to talk things through face to face, believe me. x
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 March 2009): plus if you don't care don't be anonymous.if you already had sex? if you did be careful who you do it with you can get serious STDs etc.if you did'nt stay a virgin until your married.i'm anonymous because i feel like it's weird answering a question like this.
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