A
male
age
36-40,
*chup
writes:I broke up with my girlfriend about a year ago. We'd been a couple for 2 years. The problem is my parents doesn't agree if i dated her. I'm 24 and she is 22 now. So when we broke up I told her that I can't be with her any more. But the truth is I love her so much and she knows that. The reason I said that because my parents tell me not too. After we broke up a year ago, we've been on and off. We still hang out like bf and gf but we don't call it couple because I'm hiding it from my parents. But a month ago she started dating others, I think she got tired of me because of hiding it from my parents. My family and her family go to same church. So we are pretty close. When she dated others I felt so jealous and I want her back, but she said she needs time and space. So I give her space. The first guy she dated was just a rebound. They dated for 2 weeks and it's done. But she found someone else in the church. They became a couple a week ago. They are official now. Before she still shared her life but after she went out with this guy she never calls me any more. I'm the one that calls her every time now.I realize I make mistake and and I really miss her. I think I still like her so much. I miss seeing her again. I even forced my parents so I can be with her. My parents told me if you really want her bad then go for it. I told her we can work things out. But she said it's too late. I asked her if she's happy with him, and she said she is. Is there any possible chance I can be with her again? Do you think the new bf just another rebound also? It's so hard to move on, I wish I could go back in time and don't make that mistake. What should I Do? Wait for her?
View related questions:
broke up, jealous, move on Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
male
reader, anonymous, writes (3 March 2009): No man....just move on...
She already moved on bud, sorry. You need to completely disregard your parent's stupid control and do whatever you want. Believe me, you wont mature as a man until you act like a man and disobey your parents, especially in the regard of going after the one you love. They have no right to tell you what to do. Trust me. I am 24 also, and was also raised religiously. Me and my parents have a great relationship. but They dont tell me what to do.
But forget this one....its done. Find a new chica, or better yet, find yourself.
A
male
reader, kllgunner +, writes (2 March 2009):
 dude yo'uer 24, they can't tell you what to do! You're legally able to tell them to mind their own business and they cant do anything about it! Date her if you love her, tell your parents and they can't do anything about it.
...............................
|
