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I want to continue being intimate but I don't know how to tell him?

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Question - (2 March 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 2 March 2009)
A female United States age 41-50, anonymous writes:

I have a friend that I am very attracted to. I think he is attracted to me as well. We have been intimate. I want to continue being intimate but I don't know how to tell him. What do I do?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (2 March 2009):

I say DON'T tell him. It's awkward enough just thinking of how you are going to say it to him. Because if you don't know HOW to say it to him, then you are not comfortable just YET. so i say don't for a little more while until you feel like you are ready and comfortable.

If you want to be more intimate with him, just express it in your action when you guys are together.

FOR NOW.

And when you are ready the right words are always important to say.

YOu should start off by questions, like "do you like being with me?" "can i come over more?" etc... questions that will give you answers that tells you that he is ON THE SAME PAGE AS YOU. when you find his answers in your favor you will know that it is time to say what you want from him.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (2 March 2009):

if he single go for it, but if he is married forget it as you will get hurt in the end.

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