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writes:I have been in a relationship for about 6 to 7 months but I feel he wants to have more then just love... meaning he wants to have sex with me. Should I and if I do decide what are the best condoms to use?
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reader, Tomas +, writes (3 March 2009):
Also, when I did have problems with condoms (though not specific brands) were when I was younger and did not appreciate the value of lubes. A condom is more likely to break if you are or get dry inside.
Which brings up another point: you should be able to talk about stuff like condoms and lubes with someone you are considering having sex with. The saying goes, if you aren't ready to talk about sex, you aren't ready to do it.
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reader, Tomas +, writes (3 March 2009):
Sex? Not unless *you* want to. You can always do it later. You can't undo it.
Whenever you get to the time and place and person where you do want to have sex, i'd also suggest trojans, though I've never had problems with any brand.
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reader, bobbles32  +, writes (3 March 2009):
 also, you should look into an oral contraceptive (the pill) or the transdermal contraceptive (the patch)
Condoms are not ALWAYS 100% protective. If they break then you've got a nice chance of being a mommy. Look into having an emergency back up plan like the morning after pill (plan B) It doesn't kill any baby or anything and it's not harmful to you in anyway but it's only effective if taken within like 24-36 hours after the incident. Hope I helped.
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reader, bobbles32 +, writes (2 March 2009):
trojan i find have been the best. everytime i have ever used a lifestyles condom, they have broken. Avoid lifestyles.
If you're not ready though it really doesn't matter what the safest condom is. If you're not comfortable then don't do it.
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reader, kllgunner +, writes (2 March 2009):
 if u really have to ask if ur ready to have sex your not im only 16 and im having sex with my gf of 6 months and we use durex ultra sensitive and trojan extra ribbed these are both good have fun be safe.
-madly in love
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