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*avish
writes:I'm done with this marriage...I need help...Someone please shine some light this way.. I need to divorce my husband of 5 years. I can’t deal with this loveless marriage anymore. In the twincities, have anyone tried using this website www.ourdivorceagreement.com ? or have any information about dirvorce lawyers that won't cost me an arm and a leg??
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reader, lavish +, writes (4 March 2009):
lavish is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you for all the wonderful advice……
We own a house and have a wonderful daughter together. I'm thinking about stop making the house payment? I ask him to leave the other day and he said that he's not leaving because that's his house too…but dyme he haven't been paying for anything……. the guy's jobless and living on unemployment ( 112 a week ) doesn't look like he'll look for a job anytime soon. It's been like this ever since we got married, lack of motivation.. Doesn't want to work, can't hold a job longer than 3 months..i'm tired of it……I no longer have any respect for him as a husband or someone that I would want to be with for the rest of my life.(( a total loser in my eyes….)
he is my baby's daddy and is great to her so I can't do anything that's tooo dramatic because I do still want him to be apart of her life….argg!! Soo stressful……..!!!!!!!
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reader, Ted-ster +, writes (2 March 2009):
In most states, you don't need to state a reason -- divorces can be either contested or noncontested -- noncontested are clearly easier so hopefully hubby agrees so that it won't cost you both too much (either of you). My advice: be level and mature, don't fall into the trap of name-calling, or pointing blame. Just say wish you well, great guy, etc., and then move on.
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reader, jessica04 +, writes (2 March 2009):
 You can usually print out your own divorce papers online and sign the appropriate pages. Just go to your local family law center.
Now if you have children and a lot of property, or you need spousal support, then you will need an attorney. You can even work it that he would have to pay for your attorney fees. Up to you. I don't know your financial status.
The website yo looked at seems all fine and dandy, except that they are charging you for what is free to do on your own. I printed out my divorce papers from my county's website (live in Vegas, our jurisdiction is weird) and signed the lines and highlighted where I needed my ex to sign. Just make sure you print out the correct type of divorce forms. There are some for if you have children, no kids, major property, no property.
That website is charging you for free things, and it will still cost you to have your divorce filed and recorded.
Good luck, please let me know how things go.
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reader, wonderingcat  +, writes (2 March 2009):
 On what grounds are you divorcing your husband? They need to be proven (and possibly well documented to be used as evidence if necessary)
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