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writes:He said he would talk with me about what happened. But it has been two weeks. I did see him but he said he does not want to talk about it yet. I don't understand this. I just want an honest open discussion. It is hard for me to get closure without knowing why he runs away rather than dealing with things. He has talked with his friends about this but yet he won't talk to me. Don't you think enough time has gone by? He is not a child (50) but I feel he is acting childish. He really is a great guy and a great person. I know he has a hard time with emotions. This has happened befoe but yet he would see me although we never really got into the jist of what happened - just that he forgives me. I get upset and mad and get over it. I think that is normal. I also think things happen in relationships that need to be discussed so there is a better understanding of each other. Is he afraid to talk because he is afraid of closeness? The question of love is not even the issue. Is there anything I can do? I really love him. Reply to this Question
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reader, silvermist3 +, writes (2 March 2009):
He can't express his emotions with you. Most men are the same way. If it isn't something that is that important I would let it go. Act more like he does, and he will come around.
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