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*kyLaBleu
writes: My boyfriend and I are very much in love, believe it or not. We had sex and it didn't really hurt... and there was no blood. Just a tight burning sensation.Someone told me I probably already popped my cherry via tampons or masturbation. I mean the last time we had sex it felt good... it still kinda hurt for a second when he enters me, but then that's it. The rest is totally comfortable-no pain.But my friend said that's normal... I was just wondering if I did actually pop my cherry? Stupid question I know but still - and yes once I masturbated and it hurt cuz I went in deep... and then when I pulled out... there was blood. Not a lot maybe a quarter sized amount...Just wondering. Write back ya'll thanks!
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reader, kllgunner +, writes (2 March 2009):
Yes best chance is you did! There's not going to be that much blood so best chance is you already popped it.
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reader, jessica04 +, writes (2 March 2009):
Really, virginity can have nothing to do with your hymen being intact. It all depends on what you consider to be a virgin. Some people think that oral means you're not a virgin, some people only count vaginal penetration as losing virginity.
Point is, you had sex. He was in you, he came, you had a great time. Whether there was blood or not, you're not a virgin anymore.
It is very possible that you already tore your hymen with a tampon, or while bike riding, or any other strenuous activity. It happens, but don't dwell on it. You know what happened between those sheets ;-)
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