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She's bi, I'm not...and feel she's interested in me

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Question - (2 March 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 2 March 2009)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

There's this girl i knew in my old school. I was in 7th grade and she was in 8th grade. We were just acquantinces. In 8th grade, i went to this freshmon for a day program, where u go to a highschool tht ur interested in and a current freshmon shows u around. I chose tht same girl cuz we knew each other like we'd say hi and stuff but we never rlly spoke and i thought she would be a good friend. So i got her and she seemed rlly excited to show me around and we talked about a whole bunch of stuff and we exchanged instant messengers. Every 5 minutes she'd always ask me " So do u see any cute boys here?" with a big smile on her face and id always say no but she kept asking. Tht summer,after i graduated from 8th grade, i got a myspace and i added her as a friend. She accepted me and i read her about me and it had a whole list of things tht ppl may not know about her and one of them said she was bi. I got a little scared at first, especially since id be going to the same school as her in september, which im in now. I was afraid tht she'd start to make a move on me, even though i thought i wouldnt mind. She was very pretty, but it's not like i have a crush on her. So now in high school, i notice she always leans into me when im talking, and touches me as if it's by an accident, and always makes an accuse to talk to me. Im not very good friends with her yet, so im kinda scared to ask her if she likes me,or if she's just being very friendly. Do u think tht she thinks im interested cuz everytime she'd ask if i saw cute boys id say no? Wat do u think? Sorry if this was too long. Thanx!!

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A female reader, Aylarsh United States +, writes (2 March 2009):

Aylarsh agony auntYou're just paranoid since you found out she is bi. just ignore them and act normal. you never know you guys could be best friends in the near future i wouldn't blow her off. if her advances do continue and get to the point where you feel uncomforatable then just flat out tell her. she could just be a flirty person you know

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A reader, anonymous, writes (2 March 2009):

i wouldn't say anything to her, but if she actually tries to make a move on you, then i would tell her that you feel uncomfortable…what would you do if a boy that you weren't interested in was acting this way towards you

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