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writes:hi everybody, need some help, i am 35 yrs, 2 kids and married for 3 years. i don't know if i have trust issues or just a general problem. my wife has been in contact with her ex-hubby regards her dog, which when they split up went with him. recently she bumped into him in a local nightclub, she told him about me and the family e.t.c. and showed him pics of me and family e.t.c that did'nt make me quite happy because she always told me she could,nt forgive him but she talked to him anyway. last week she got an email about dog, because it had been maltreated by his now ex. she kept as a friend on facebook and i blew my stack. she said she was "going" to delete as a "friend" but she told me about the email. i don't keep in contact with my ex's and don't have reason to. she told me that i did'nt trust e.t.c. she blows hot and cold with me, i give her attention i.e cuddles and that but when its sex its me who always gets it going. she never gets things going unless she has a few drinks, tonight i said the "blue pill" thing from ann summers, but her response was i might allergic to whatevers in there,
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reader, tractor boy +, writes (2 March 2009):
tractor boy is verified as being by the original poster of the questionwhat big clue tedstar?
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reader, tractor boy +, writes (2 March 2009):
tractor boy is verified as being by the original poster of the questionwe just had chat about things, i said i am out of ideas and what does she think. she said we don't do enough together, i don't listen enough, she says loves me and why i don't i get out enough to the pubs e.t.c. she says that she would'nt want to be without me and the kids. in this day and age i know where my place is and thats at home with my family. we don't have much money so why do i want to piss it up the wall? she works hard and don't be-grudge her going out because she has 2 part-time jobs and the kids otherwise i feeling a horrible bastard of a husband
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reader, Ted-ster  +, writes (2 March 2009):
Sounds like trouble is a brewin'. I agree with previous poster, married women shouldn't go to clubs without spouse (unless unusual circumstance, e.g., younger coworker getting married/party etc). Secondly, she's not respecting you in other ways. I see touble in your future. Have a heart-to-heart with her ... if she's interested... she might not be, again, and that will be a big clue, too.
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