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anonymous
writes:Hi,I've been with my girlfriend for about a month now. I'm 16, as is she. However, this is my first same sex relationship but it is not hers. She's a very confident lesbian, while I'm quite a bit more timid and only just come out as bisexual. Well we've experimented with some sexual things, all but oral, and I know she wants it. However, if I'm honest, I'm terrified about the prospect of her doing it to me, because I find it SO personal and being a virgin, I'm very nervous. I'm even more nervous still, about going down on her. She's had many partners and a lot of oral sex, therefore she's immediatley gonna compare me to her past experiences. Please can someone give me some advice on what to do. She'd be so impressed if I actually managed to do it well, as I know she's expecting me to be crap.Please please help :Dxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 March 2009): Start off slow. She's in a relationship with you, and it sounds like she knows and understands that this is all new to you. If you're still unsure, I suggest you even talk it out with her. But don't freak out. It'll be alright.
And oral feels so amazing. You'll love her tongue on you, just as much as she'll love your tongue on her. Try talking it out, before you jump in though. See what happens.
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reader, loving arms +, writes (3 March 2009):
What a shame you feel under such pressure. I would advise you to slow down. Take things slowly. Just because your girlfriend has experience does not mean you have to try to reach some imagined standard. I would also be surprised if your girlfriend was keeping some kind of comparison chart on how good past girlfriends are compared to you. Let's face it if they were so great she'd be with them not you right?
Take your time babe when you are ready everything will be fine.
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reader, kllgunner  +, writes (2 March 2009):
 ok well im a dude but my sister is a lesbian and she just recently got a gf and well just do what you feel theres no right or rong way good luck.
-madly in love
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