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Is there any way to tell if a woman is a virgin? How can I ask without offending her or sounding stupid?

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Question - (2 March 2009) 4 Answers - (Newest, 13 March 2009)
A male United States age 36-40, *michael writes:

I am a virgin and i am going to wait to have sex until i meet that right woman. But my question is, is there anyway to tell if a woman is a virgin? there is a woman that i don't know all that well but I am interested in dating her. Is there any way to ask her if she is a virgin without looking stupid or offending her?

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (13 March 2009):

Shouldn't you get to know her first? Are their things that draw two people together other than sex? What is her personality like, her religious views, her family, her hopes, aspirations, etc. There is more to a woman than her sexual, or lack thereof, past.

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A female reader, Emilysanswers United Kingdom +, writes (2 March 2009):

I think you have to take a risk, ask her out, and then when you are out you can ask her about her views on sex.

Bring it into conversation. If you tell her that you want to wait for the right person and lose it to them ONLY on the condition that they happen to be a virgin too, then she will either say that she is the same, or tell you that's stupid.

Then you'll know!

Good Luck!! xx

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A reader, anonymous, writes (2 March 2009):

Ask her when was the last time she had sex? thats a neutral enough question... expect to be hit if you say it out of the blue. so it has to be in the right setting....

otherwise enjoy....

Star.x.

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A male reader, ArmyMedic United Kingdom +, writes (2 March 2009):

ArmyMedic agony auntNo there isn't a way of telling, and asking her before you even date her would massively offend/creep her out, the best way is to date her for a while first and then ask the question, but you'll have to tell her that you are a virgin otherwise you'll sound really creepy.

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