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writes:Hi, I am a 33 year old woman who is in a relationship with a married man that has been going on for a while, him and his wife are separated, and we live together, i feel that he is cheating on me because when we are home together he turns his phone off, or when a particukar ring tone rings he doesn't answer, he say he is not trying to be with anyone else, but i think he is lying and i am tired of it, because first of all he wants his wife back, but i think it is someone else other than his wife he is seeing, i just got this feeling that he is seeing other women but he comes home and have sex with me often, and tells me he loves me, but i don't believe it anymore, i am at the point where my head and my heart are in conflict, because my head is telling me to go and my heart is saying stay, but at t he same time he is breaking my heart just from what i feel so strongly about and that is him seeing other women, i am so heart broken and torn because i really love this man and gave him every part of me.please help!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 March 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthank you ms britt429, no offense at all . all along i was needing a female to talk to who understood where i was coming from and all the while i never gave thought that his wife is the real victim because this man had my nose so far in i didn't think about consequences, he told me he loved me and in the beginning treated me like a princess, and he know i needed that because my husband had did me so bad with the abuse he came along like a saint and gave me what i was craving and that was love. i am so ashamed of what i have been doing, that i think i need to seek counseling because i am sad all the time and never trusting, and i feel so unloved and wanted. and i don't want my life to be this way always,
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 March 2009): I'm glad my answer didn't offend you! I meant no disrespect! I have done some pretty shameful things in the past and I regret them now!
I hope you will get away from this guy! Who knows how many woman he has hurt! He is obviously a womanizer that cannot be trusted! You are but one of his victims! Don't let him sweet talk you and continue to victimize you. Stand up for your self respect and kick him out! No doubt he has other places to go!
I'm sorry if I sound harsh...it just makes me angry! Why must people play such games and destroy lives?
I hope you can get your life on track and use this experience as a learning tool...helping others on this site for instance! I have a wealth of (bad) experiences to give me insight into other peoples problems. And being able to help others tells me that it was not in vain!
Good Luck!
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reader, AuntyEm  +, writes (2 March 2009):
 I agree. Married men who are cheating with you are just that...cheats and they will continue to do it for as long as women let them get away with it.
What goes around comes around and eventually you will reap it.
Get away from him now and find someone whos free to commit to a healthy one on one relationship.
Good Luck x
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 March 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionyes maam ms. britt 429 thank you, and you are right, for all women messing with a married man, KARMA IS A B#*@H...I am feeling the wrath now I am gonna get down on my knees and ask God to forgive me and repent for what I have done.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 March 2009): If you cheat with a married man, chances are you will be cheated on by the married man! Maybe now you know how his wife feels! She the one I have sympathy for!
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