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30-35,
anonymous
writes:I have been talking to one of my best friend's brother for a little while and he asked me out (I said yes) but he is grounded and his parents took away his car until he graduates so he has to wait a month till I get my license to go out with me but he knows that and wants to wait. I really like him but my friend doesn't even know I talk to him and is completely against it. I know this because the first time we talked she flipped at me and said I wasn't allowed to like him and I promised her I wouldn't but he started to talk to me again and I began to fall for him. I am always the person who goes out of their way to make sure all the people I love are happy before I worry about myself but lately I have been feeling really down and I think it's because Ii never do anything to make me happy any more. Don't get me wrong, it makes me happy to see my friends happy but I don't think that's enough. I really like my friends brother but I am worried my friend will hate me if I go out with him.She is having a party at her house this weekend and everyone is sleeping over at her house and her brother is going to be home and I have a feeling it's either gonna go really good or really bad! and I really don't want to ruin her party.I really just don't know if I should tell her or keep on the down low because it might not even last that long or I just don't know. Help please!
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reader, Plutonious +, writes (2 March 2009):
You are old enough to decide who you like and dislike, or who you have crush on or you don't... No friend should ever demand you not to talk to her brother.
You should tell her in the most mature way, that she cannot be deciding for you anymore, and it's disrespectful.
And ask why is she treating you that way?
Perhaps there is a reason why she is acting this way.
There is always a reason why something that will cause someone to do something, anything. YOu just gotta hear that reason from your friend.
And this sleep over, act casual. if he talks to you, then talk back, you can't just blow him off just because your friend demands so. Then, if you do walk away from your crush, you might ruin things between you and him.
I know it's hard because you are a selfless girl which is good, but sometimes you gotta do your self favors too.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 March 2009): well, u no...ur friend CANT tell you who to like, and who not to like...it probly is just really wierd 4 her, i went through the same thing, exept vise-versa. my friend liked my brother. she is probly scared that he's all ur gunna talk about, but ya...talk 2 her, tell her how you feel.and make sure her brothr REALLY likes u. hope i helped *shrug*
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