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30-35,
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writes:Right, my bf and me have beeen going out for about 6 months, and he broke up with me today- not for any particular reason:/ he just said he didnt want a gf and that he felt he didnt desrve me ect, this is all fine i get that, it was just so random, lituraly the day before he was telling me i was his best friend, perfect for him and never wanted anything more, i was so happy when he told me this, and then the next day i got a text saying it was over :/ive spoken to him about it, and him and mines mate- he says he's confused and needs to think- his friend said he wants to be single so he can go partys and get drunk and get with girls- i dont know what to believe, we where so close- i saw him most days and really i just want him back in my life :(advice on what i should do/ think?( I dont want loads of things saying "your too young to care about things like this" tbh i just want advice, not people giving me a lecture on what i "shuold/ shouldnt " be doing )many thanksxxx
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reader, jessica04  +, writes (2 March 2009):
 Honestly, he probably does want do just go out and party up with girls and friends because you ARE too young to be tied down so soon.
It's great that you experienced a long relationship, and I think you should take everything you learned and apply it to future relationships. I'm sure he does care about you, but he needs to sow some wild oats. He is also probably a bit afraid of falling flat on his face and he doesn't want to burn any bridges with you. He's treating you like a safety net. It's up to you what you do if he does go running around playing the field and then decides to come back to you.
Personally, I'd let him go and not take him back. You two can still be friends, but he is a fickle young boy. Go have fun, be a crazy kid, and be safe no matter what.
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