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Whats it like to be in love?

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Question - (2 March 2009) 6 Answers - (Newest, 17 March 2009)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

This question can be to anyone really, what does it feel like to be in love? How do you know if you're in love and what does it mean to you?

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (17 March 2009):

you think about her/him all the time. Being without her for an hour hearts you. You think about her everysecond of the day possible. You look into her/his eyes and you lose yourself. Life has been 1000 times better with her. Get happy when he/she walks into the room, sad when he/she leaves you. Just wake up and try to get in contact with him/her. via text, phone, IM, in person. Just basically always wanting to be with her/him all the time.

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A female reader, scaredkitty Brazil +, writes (3 March 2009):

scaredkitty agony auntFrom my experience, when you're in love you wake up all happy, you have a strong reason to start the day... you keep smiling all day long just because, you treat other people better, you become more positive, generous... *sighs* and when you hurt, it does feel like a physical punch, like if you're heart is being squeezed and when you cry, tears just flow from you're eyes by themselves... awww love...

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A female reader, Nancie United Kingdom +, writes (2 March 2009):

Nancie agony auntHey it's me again, I just made an account lol.

It does make you vulnerable, very very. Which is why you also feel insecure a lot and jealous, but when you're in love, you're really willing to risk it all, and you just don't care if you will get hurt at a later time. You just grasp it and enjoy it. It really is amazing.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (2 March 2009):

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hey thanks for the answer glad you liked the question, wow you really do make it sound amazing, but doesn't it make you feel completely vulnerable too, knowing that something that this one person can say or do can effect you so much?

I look forward to experiencing the contentment you describe for myself later on in life :]

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (2 March 2009):

Your heart feels as if its been physically punched.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (2 March 2009):

Hey! I like your question :D

Being in love is absolutely amazing. It completely changes your world, everything in your life suddenly seems simple, and like it has a purpose. It's like you can do anything, you feel invisible when you're with that person, and just a thought of them can make you strong enough to face any fear. It also makes you very emotional, you will have loads of times that you are extremely upset and extremely happy. It makes you feel high, you feel so good about everything and you're so carefree. Suddenly your world is colourful and beautiful. But also being in love makes you so protective, possessive and jealous, because you are scared of losing this something that makes you feel the best. It's kind of like a drug, you get completely addicted. It makes you feel alive and like you don't need anything but that person. It's the kind of love that makes you walk an old lady across the street and skip in a field full of flowers. Love is what everyone makes it out to be. It's crazy and way exaggerated, it's incredible in its own way. Sometimes it's complete heaven, and sometimes it could be complete hell. It's so precious. And so overwhelming that sometimes you just cry. But it's not obsession.. when you're in love, sometimes you can be with that person and suddenly feel the most content you've ever been. When you're just happy with life. Not so happy, not so sad, you're just in your most peaceful and content state.

I don't know, that's just from experience.

I'm still in love! :D

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