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writes:If a woman has had very large lovers in her past , can she really be truly satisfied with an average sized man later in life?
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 January 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the question Thank you all so much for your input. Everyone gave such sound and honest advice , it is greatly appreciated.
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reader, Tbosse  +, writes (6 January 2011):
 Yes, they still can be satisfied.its not the size that matters, but the act itself
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reader, aphexinfinite  +, writes (6 January 2011):
 in my experience yes a woman can be satisfied with a smaller lover. although as alot of women will tell men is that if they know how to use it is better! so many men do not believe this but it really is true. doesnt always matter about size its about knowing what you have and how to use it. hope this helps aphex xx
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reader, Little_aphrodite  +, writes (6 January 2011):
 Well, i dnt know about other women. But when i fall in love with someone, i will not compare him with anyone including someone in my past..
I love him because jst the way he is..
I love him because i feel comfort when am with him..
So i dnt need to compare with anyone.. :)
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reader, Donealot +, writes (6 January 2011):
And the correct answer is... "Yes".
If you are still concerned about pleasuring her with a large size, buy a dildo for her. Have fun using it on her. Trust me she will never love, like or anything else a dildo over the real thing. Dildos are not warm, they have off putting smells and tastes, and dildos can not hold her while in the throws of lovemaking. For these reasons, drop the penis size complex in your head and get a dildo to pound her good. That is if she still desires something large during sex sessions.
OTOH, She may be very excited to have a 'normal' penis. The average size penis is more than enough to hit every deliciously sensitive zone in the average pussy. The benefits of not having an extremely large penis are varied. One of the best that I can think of is the amount of time you can reside within her without causing pain.
I do not have a very large penis (9" x 2"). But I can tell you that I have run into problems with being slightly larger than normal. Problems include (for her)... yeast infections due to torn skin, severely irritated skin if not torn, hitting the ladies cervix i.e. 'bottoming out', intimidated by oral, even more patience is needed for anal. These things happen and then you have to wait at least a week (based on her pain tolerance) to 'try again'.
So yes, by all means an average dick will suffice. Even if she has had larger in the past doesn't mean she wouldn't prefer your cock over those others in the past.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 January 2011): Yes, she can be satisfied.
It's not as if the larger penis permanently distorts the vagina. I never asked an "average size" guy to verify this, but I suspect we are looser after regularly making love to a larger guy.
But given enough time & rest, the vagina goes back to regular size. For instance after a 6 month dry spell (and a past with larger lovers, I found it a little painful and I bled after having sex again with an average sized boyfriend. The vagina is a resilient creature. It can bounce back from anything...except maybe childbirth.
Women, like men, are usually satisfied with what they like and can feasibly get. Don't worry about it.
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