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writes:What does it mean if a guy says "Are you a bad girl?" to you ? It will be something sexual, as he has said that he wants to have sex with me, but what does being "bad" mean exactly? Or is that just something that guys say when they are turned on? We haven't had sex yet, by the way, but we were kissing and he told me that he wants to go further with me some time.
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reader, Illithid  +, writes (7 January 2011):
 Bad = willing to be sexual without a ton of hangups and hesitation, active and happy to get a bit wild.
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reader, Serpico +, writes (7 January 2011):
Hes asking if you will sleep with him.
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (6 January 2011):
 "bad" in this context does mean he asks if you like to have sex, in particular with him.
It's really not a good way to ask, it's an offense to be honest. When he asks like that he basically asks if you are "bad" enough to want to sleep with anyone, aka he's asking if you're a slut.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 January 2011): he`s is sayin your hot and he likes that
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reader, cat lady +, writes (6 January 2011):
 His question could mean little to nothing; it's just modern slang. Haven't had sex yet? Good! Don't do it till you know if that's all it is or if the guy's a dope. Ask him what he means by it! You see, there are other connotations too, with which you may not be quite so comfortable. It can mean contrary to conventional morality, which automatically puts you outside of the protections of the same. In that case,"bad girls," don't get so many marriage proposals. The double standard is alive and well! It has been much more difficult to eradicate than the plagues of earlier centuries whence it came. Never forget that.
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reader, PrettyGirlRock +, writes (6 January 2011):
He means he wants you to be bad as in naughty or dirty while having sex or foreplay with him, or even just talking to him about it enough to turn him on to think you will be bad or dirty. Its a good thing to guys if you say yes and tease them, like say something like "Ill be your naughty girl all night long, if youll let me" Trust me it drives guys crazy! And all they want is you.
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reader, dirtball +, writes (6 January 2011):
 Bad, naughty, they are just words. Often it's part of dirty talk. When I use it, it means she's teasing me and it's driving me nuts. "Naughty" or "bad" is often good in that context. It means you're turning him on.
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