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writes:Dear cupid Am into a two years relationship now,but just at the begining of this year we got into a missunderstanding dat almost leaded to a breakup..I love this girl and i really plans for her to marry..but the main point is we quarrel almost every week,mostly through arguments..most times i do apologise back,.Am really confused ,is this how we relate after marriage? Am very confused
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reader, guza2k3 +, writes (19 January 2011):
guza2k3 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks alot, but one of the things we argue about is "quietness". She tells me am too quiet whenever we are together,i guess its my nature but i do try my best to do make things more lively whenever we are together,but she just tells me its not enough.she get anoyd ova dis very often..
She compares me with her ex and say am too quiet 4 her likings...am very confused.
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reader, Cerberus_Raphael  +, writes (7 January 2011):
 Before getting married, it is important that you deal with this issues now. Why do you two argue so much? Is there really no peaceful alternative? Get to the root of the problem and try to remove it.
I am afraid this lacks much detail so there is only so much I can say before blindly assuming things. What exactly was this misunderstanding? If it is something that led to trust issues, I highly suggest dealing with it now, talk about it and make sure both of you understand what is/was going on.
I hope that helps.
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