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writes:i broke up with my ex-boyfriend in january 2010 and we weren't together long (4 months) and it ended on bad terms. we haven't been in contact since then and i don't have his number and i am not his friend on a social network site. so on new years eve i was on my way into town via the bus with my friend and he must have drove past as he has taken it upon himself to contact me just to tell me that he saw me on my way out. why is he getting in contact after a year and it ended in such a bad way that we dont even talk as he cheated on me with his ex girlfriend. should i contact him back and see how he is or should i walk away without being sucked into talking to him, bearing in mind he has a current girlfriend. another thought of mine is why is he getting in touch just to tell me hes seen me whilst he has a girlfriend? he does have a bad reputation for sleeping around i might add.
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reader, Blod +, writes (6 January 2011):
 I don't think you should get back in contact with him. I doubt he's contacted you again so that you can just be friends. It sounds like, despite ending on bad terms, you were happy to move on from him. He treated you badly and he'd probably do the same again. I'd advise you to ignore him. Good luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 January 2011): He's getting back in touch with you because he wants to cheat on his girlfriend with you.
Stay away from him, he's bad news. You don't even talk, he cheated on you and hurt you. By even contacting you again after all that means he's just hurt his current girlfriend. Don't get involved, you know what he's playing at and you know what he'll try and do.
I mean you don't want to be friends with a guy who has hurt you badly do you? The answer is simple.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 January 2011): There is nothing wrong with getting back in touch with him if you want to. But if you have no interest in rekindling your relationship, and I find it odd he's contacting you after so long, I wouldn't reply.
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