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writes:i am in big trouble..i don't no how it happened? and now what i do, i was in a relationship with my boyfriend from last eight years i was quite long relationship, i tried to convenes my parents but no use the rejected him, and when we decided to back to home town and again we will try to convenes and we were not together for one year we met very often and i was so depressed and alone and tried to always find him..near me and finally one guy came he was just my friend he tried to help me we came closer and had a sex only once and even that sex dint happed properly because i was so dipressed might be...and my boyfriend came to know about it...and he broke up with me but i love my boyfriend too much he is not even ready to meet me once he said i broke his trust i know but that guy who came in my life he was lier he was married and he dint even told me...dont know what i did how but i love my boyfriend so much
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 January 2011): Bottom line: you had sex with a married man and you hurt your bf very badly. He will Never forgive you for this and unfortunately this is the price you will pay for your cheating.
You bf is a good decent man and he will never accept you back after you had been with another man.
I know in your country men are very very strict about cheating and they almost never take other mens left over. Sorry I am not being blunt/cruel but you know what I am saying is true. Men have pride and they expect their women to be loyal and faithful.
The only thing I can suggest is that you learn from what you have done. Next time plse do not cheat. Now plse leave your bf alone bec he will never get over your cheating.
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reader, olderthandirt  +, writes (6 January 2011):
 If he really loves you he WILL forgive(never forget but will forgive) and everything will be tolerable.. I speak from real life experience. Just tell the truth and then F___ him nearly to death.
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reader, petina1  +, writes (6 January 2011):
 You really need to tell your boyfriend that you need him to listen to you and explain fully why you became close with someone else. Let him know it was a mistake you were very lonely and depressed. You know you made a massive mistake. You will have to try to make him forgive you. It seems you have a difficult enough relationship as it is and how can he be sure this won't happen again. You will have to try your hardest to make sure he knows you want only him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 January 2011): Well you make a mistake, and now you are paying the price of losing your love. Also some men love preying on venerable women, he is a little scummy. However, why did you even sleep with him?
You may have to cut your losses and move on. He may forgive you cheating. However I hate people who cheat, and you deserve this. Anyway plently of fishes in the sea.
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