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writes:Hi People,I'm not sure if this question is stupid or not but it has been playing on my mind ever since.I have been with my gf for almost 6 years now and I don’t want to wreck it from paranoia.The other night we got abit drunk and were playing around in bed and talking about each other’s fantasies.I asked her who/if she fancied any of my friends (bad move by me probably! :( ) and she eventually told me she fancied a particular person a little.Should I worry about this at all?I asked her the next day If she really did to which she said she didn’tAm I being stupid?I dont want to feel uncomfortable if they are ever talking in the future if you know what I mean.And just to note. I completely trust her 100% . Thanks
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 January 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questioncheers guys, Its made me feel alot better about it and after all as you say I have fancied one of her friends but I wouldnt do anything about it. Just looking if you know what I mean. I guess its good that we are open about these things.
Just another OCD issue. thanks again
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 January 2011): she probably denied it because of your reaction.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 January 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks for the reply
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reader, Itsjustflirting  +, writes (6 January 2011):
 Well, first, you asked the question. Dumb move. Honestly though, can you say you've never thought about one of her friends, or one of your mates girlfriends/wives? Did anything ever come of it? In most cases no. You asked. She answered. She may have thought you like the idea of that, many men do. I really wouldn't sweat it. It's part of life. Just refrain from asking stupid questions and you'll be alright! Ask her if she fancies any of her girl friends!
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reader, largentsgirl89 +, writes (6 January 2011):
 You know this could go either way, she could like him and she could not and it was the drink talking. I would observe her and this person when they are together and notice their body language and the way that they speak to each other should give way to whether she does or not.
It took her awhile to admit that she likes this person even while she was drunk, that to me says she was probably telling you the truth when she said she liked them. But it is probably a harmless thing, you have been with her for six years.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 January 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionAm I right to think that this could be just a case that she might find this person attractive but obviously wouldn’t do anything more.
Like for example If I seen a nice women walking down the street I am obviously going to notice her but wouldn’t think twice about doing anything about it?
Could this also be a good thing that she told me because it shows she feels very secure with me?
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