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writes:right, basically, me and my ex boyfriend split up 5 months ago after a year and a half, 3 weeks after he started driving and i havent been able to get over him. i still see him around, we have been through a lot of crap, he wasnt very nice and neither was i and we made our friends choose sides, he dumped me on facebook which hurt. i have never expierenced a pain before, he started hanging around with this other girl who was meant to be my friend aswell, they became best friends and do everything together. he talks about me to my friends for example "have you heard about me and this girl (who i wont name)" was he trying to make me jealous cause he knew it would get back to me? i want to be back with him, i would do anything, we sometimes speak, we saw each other at a party and i felt like he was hoovering around me, i acted like i didnt care and just had fun. then we had eye contact and it made me realise i wanted him back, then he hugged me and it was nice and firm and it was nothing had changed and the hug lasted longer than it should have, we talked an laughed for about 10 minutes, then his friend came over and then he acted distance and uncaring. should i move on or try bothering to get back with him? bearing in mind a lot of bad/good stuff happened inbetween these events.
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reader, Lauren94 +, writes (8 January 2011):
Lauren94 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionand now according to other people he still loves me!
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reader, largentsgirl89  +, writes (6 January 2011):
 Do you want him back after he dumped you on Facebook? Can you handle that again if he does that? He is "best friends" with one of the girls who was supposed to be one of your friends, do you think they are going to stop hanging out with each other if you two start dating?
Does he want to be with you? He acts uncaring and distant with you in front of his friends, he doesn't sound like someone who wants to get back together with you. OF course he could be playing games with you. You never know.
If you are really unsure then wait it out and hang out with your real friends for a while and see where things go with him.
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