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writes:I've met someone who I am very taken with.We've had two dates, then Xmas came and have had to wait about 2 weeks before seeing her again. We've arranged the third date for this weekend. We've talked a lot inbetween.I don't know what my problem is but I feel so anxious and nervous. I really like this girl, she's the first girl I've dated in a long-stream of women who I didn't get on with. I was ready to give up, then I met her and whilst it feels incredible, I can't help but feel anxious and self-doubting. Like, why would she want to talk to me, or see me, or ever want to be with me! I need to control it I know, and I am usually fine in person, just the times inbetween dates drive me crazy.I believe quite strongly that she is into me, but why can't I just accept that and be happy. I find myself re-reading texts, and messages and things like that. And I hate it. I get worried that I said the wrong thing, and it's making me so restless. Is this normal??
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reader, largentsgirl89  +, writes (6 January 2011):
 Sounds like a normal beginning to a relationship. I still have some of the text messages my fiance sent me when we first met each other, so it's normal, what you are doing that is.
Don't stress too much about it. Everything has it's own way of falling into place and will do so. Don't rush things and don't be too pushy. I'm sure she is probably doing the same thing.
Aland Islands huh? I bet it's beautiful there. Good luck to you man.
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