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writes: Hi. I've never used this before I was hoping to get some really good advise. Okay here I go. My boyfriend and I have been dated for a year and 7 months. We're going towards our 8th month this 25th. Recently, a girl came up to me and told me that my boyfriend was cheating on me. She said that she had been with him at his house the saturday I was busy with a school function. This girl doesn't seem like the type that would lie to me especially since I've known her since junior high. He disproved her but she said somethings that left me unsure. He's cheated on my before but I found out on my own. I used to love him like no other and to a degree I still do. My feelings have changed and I don't know whether it's because my feelings have changed or because I don't trust him to save my life. Any ideas? Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, Loveless06 +, writes (8 January 2011):
don't take the girls side right away. get together with both of them and ask the question and you will see who's lying and if it turns out he is then leave him right there and there but if he's not then take it up with her. she might be jealous of you and like your man and might do anything to get you to leave him so she can have him. or she can be right bout the whole thing. just watch it cuz there are some girls that slimy. good luck to you.
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reader, petina1 +, writes (7 January 2011):
I think the girl will be telling the truth. Have you any reason at all to doubt her. It's in his track record. He got away with it before so he will be thinking he can again, because y ou took him back before. You could always get in touch with the girl again and see if she will reveal any more information, do some research, gather your ammunition then fire it at him.
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