A
female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:Hello, my ex and i have 2 children together, we split up a while ago and have remained good friends. i am on my path to be happy with being single and my ex has gotten himself involved with a gitl that has a rep for screwing guys over. she only got found out on the the weekend that she was playing her current boyfriend off with my ex and my ex swore he wasnt going near her again as he didnt like her lies. she has done this before and all her dirty secrets were published on facebook.so fast forward to today, ex tells me that everything is out in the open and they are going to take baby steps until she regains his trust. i say ok hope she does the right thing this time and go onto say then i will stop hanging out with you as i dont want to upset anyone. he says ok, its your call you dont have to stay away, i say i have to. he now is angry at me as i came and dropped out children off and said hello and goodbye and left again. I didnt think i needed to do anything else as we arent together and he is now with this other girl.am i wrong for limiting the contact? is he just annoyed cause he cant have his cake and eat it too?? i dont know...am very confused.
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reader, ToHereKnowsWhen +, writes (6 January 2011):
 Well actually, I don't understand why you are limiting your contact with your ex. You gave the reason that you don't want to upset anyone, but are you? It seems that you have caused more upset by not spending time with him. How do your children feel?
Your ex's girlfriend is HIS problem if he wishes to make a go of it with her. If you are good friends, don't freeze him out.
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