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41-50,
anonymous
writes:i still love my husbnd to the core but all he cares about is money. he does not care for me or respect me. he insults me and demeans me i do all the chores for him but am totally not appreciated. we have a baby, he plays with baby ignores me is so frigid. All this attachment was not there whn i hd to deliver the baby cos he dint want to pay fr the medical chrgs. he totally disconnected with us fr 6 mnths! even now, i tk care of my baby health needs chkups meds.Even though we earn really well. he was adamant about havn control over money matters. he is sooo manipulative. he has my debit cards. he got a property in his name with our money even though i did not agree. i have tried everything. nothing works. even when i try to mk him understand what he is doing and he is wrong he says he is like this only. he did not get anything during marriage as per custom, now i have to pay for it. if i want to i can live with him or leave him. i am losing it i am getting frustrated. i seriously cant do without this person. but just for this bullshit reason - money; he is ready to give up on everything Love Respect and Family! a bloody emotionless fool. but he also knows in this society to do anything like leave him and go is almost not possible.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 January 2011): I had a wife JUST like your husband. Thankfully I don't any more.
All she was interested in was how much money I was making and when and how she could spend it. There was always a back catalogue of things for me to do when I got home that could have been taken care of instead of watching rubbish on the TV.
I hope you can find a way out for the sake of yourself and your child.
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reader, tennisstar88  +, writes (7 January 2011):
 So what's your question?
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