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30-35,
anonymous
writes:heyI am your average 16 year old i drink,party and go into town (clubs) okay im pretty mature for my age! i just dont understand what goes through a males mind all i ever do its get used by them. They say noo this is different your different from all the other girls and i belive them do things with them. Then they have gone never heard fomr them again now im not a slag thats only happened about 3 times im still a virgin. I think you know what i mean about "things" dont really want to go into detail! I normally get with older men,the youngest i have ever kissed was 19 probably which isnt to clever. But there is this one lad and okay he is 20 and i have probably only spoken to him a couple of time but i see him everywere. He is reminds with this guy and freinds with there like a group of lads that in my area are really known,and i freinds with some of them! But everitime i speak to him i get this really weird feeling but then i think hang on i dont even know him that well is that strange or normall?I am quite outgoing and confident and to some people say im stunning and beautifull (but i dont think this) basically im think im ugly and stupid and i do stupid things all the time! but this lad when i think of him or see him its weird and i know he probably doesnt even give me a second thought or even know my full name but i suppose thats the way it has to be! sorry for going on and on but i just wanted to know is it stange that i feel like that or normall?
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reader, 0000BraveHeart0000  +, writes (7 January 2011):
Wow !!!! You are very mature for your age!!! Drinking, Partying, Clubbing!!! Is that even legal at your age...oh listen to me sounding like a parent. I am really concerned about you though.
I want you to be very careful young lady! You say that men have dismissed you three times. First off, dont believe anything that men tell you...I swear , I feel like I have heard it all. You have beautiful eyes, you are a supermodel, I could make you my wife,. They would say anything to get a little nookie and I think you know what I mean.
You see, at your age some men would try to take advantage of you...thats how perverted they are. They attack the fresh and young instead of going to look for someone their own age...nasty! I think it is good that you are a virgin and I would like you to hold onto it for as long as you can. Those men who left after they were all`oh you so beautiful`was because they only wanted one thing like most men do. It is up to us as young women to be level headed, smart and brave.
I must ask that you desist from so much clubbing, parting , drinking. You do know that drinks and alcohol clouds your judgement right...you say that you are not a slag and you mess around with older guys. However, suppose it gets too far ...like to the point of not return. It is better to be safe than sorry! About the strange feeling that you have regarding the 20 year old, that it normal. You are at that age when your hormones are alive and excited and you feel as though you are inlove. Do not be fooled though, most people mistake crushes for love and in the end get CRUSHED if you know what I mean.
It is good to like someone and perfectly normal. Do not rush into anything though and also remain a secret admirer because sometimes when you tell them you like them, you get rejected. Hope I helped.
STAY IN SCHOOL!!!
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