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*ancebaybe
writes:Me and my boyfriend want to kiss but are both shy and he thinks he's gonna mess up..... how do I convince him otherwise?
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reader, Illithid +, writes (7 January 2011):
 Easy, just kiss him. Surprise him when you're sitting next to him on the couch after watching a movie, or when you're about to leave him for the night, or just totally at random when you have the urge. Just get it out of the way. If it's not "good enough" then just offer to try again with a wink.
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reader, axs678 +, writes (7 January 2011):
Kiss him at some random time for like 10 seconds
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 January 2011): I would suprise him sometime and just kiss him :) Tell him that a bad kiss won't rouin the relationship or anything, and won't change how much you like him. When he knows this, I can't imagine why he would still be scared.
Don't suprise kiss him in a scary way, try to be holding hands or something already so there's contact. Then lean in slow enough that he sees it coming and isn't completely taken off his gaurd, but don't wait too long or he might stop you. Good luck :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 January 2011): Hey babe,
LOL i remember my first kiss me and my boyfriend accidently bumped teeth I got to into it and my heart started racing and yea it was terrible haha. But don't worry I'm sure that won't happen to you at all. Just both of you get to a spot where no one is around both hug eachother first nice and long and breathe him in deep and get in the mood first then go towards eachothers faces' slowly and nice and gentle lip to lip contact. There really isn't and instruction book on the perfect kiss and there is no right or wrong way to kiss. Just get in the mood and then go for it. I have faith in you two. Good luck babe!!!!
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reader, AuntyMaur  +, writes (6 January 2011):
 Just relax- if at first you dont succeed try try again.
Like anything new,it can take a few times to perfect. Though kissing one person can feel very different to another, this is because everyone has thier own style, and feelings for the other person can alter experiences too.
It doesnt hurt to laugh a little when sexual experiences dont go as good as the text book say... I would say lets try that again to perfect it more and smile.
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reader, Dancebaybe +, writes (6 January 2011):
Dancebaybe is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThAnks but the thing is...it's neither of our first kiss...just our first one together.....he is sooo worried he's gonna mess up....but he has no reason to think that he's amazing at everything else!
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reader, kenny  +, writes (6 January 2011):
 Everyone is nervous when the first kiss is on the cards, thats natural. There is no manual with a list of instructions on how to give the perfect first kiss. Like everything in life, with practise and repetition it can only get better. Be relaxed, go with the flow, and most of all enjoy it.
Good luck
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