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I haven't heard from him since our date. Should I keep waiting?

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Question - (6 January 2011) 5 Answers - (Newest, 8 January 2011)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I don't kno what to do anymore. I went on a date with this guy I've known for years but we wernt close we were jst good friend but didn't see eachother often. Anyways he moved out of state and wanted me and my kids to move with him and I explained to him I couldnt do that but we got closer when he moved. Well he's back now and we went on one date last weekend and it was amazing!!!. So we talked all that night on the phone and then i haven't heard from him since. Its been 4 days!!! And he's all I think about but I want him to call me I don't wanna b the one to call him. Do u think I'm. Being to old fashion? Or should I keep waiting for him to call??

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A female reader, tennisstar88 United States +, writes (8 January 2011):

tennisstar88 agony auntWhat a jackass and a coward! The least he owed you was a text, email, phone call, FB message stating that he had a nice time but believe you to be better off as friends instead of leaving you hanging!!! What poor dating etiquette!

You're better off honey, and at least you've learned something new!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (8 January 2011):

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Thanks. It didn't go so well. I texted him yesterday and asked if he had plans this weekend he said ya. So I said that sux and he replies back sorry. I told him it was ok and he hasn't texted me since then:/ so I'm glad I kno wher his intentions are but hurt that he def led me on big time. Thanks for ur help.

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A female reader, tennisstar88 United States +, writes (7 January 2011):

tennisstar88 agony auntYour welcome, I got that 3-5 window from dating self help books, and guys agree that is the correct range. Good Luck!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (7 January 2011):

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Thanks tomarro will b the 5th day so I guess we ll see. And if he doesn't text me I will prob text him just out of curiosity:)

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A female reader, tennisstar88 United States +, writes (7 January 2011):

tennisstar88 agony auntI get where you're coming from. You think he should be the one to call you after the date, you want to see that effort so you're assured he's into you. I completely agree. However, I've learned that it doesn't always have to be the guy to call and it couldn't hurt to shoot him a text saying "hi". Leave it at, the next move on the chess board is his.

With that being said, the minimum window a guy has to call after a date is 3-5 days. Any longer and I would question his interest in you. Especially since he seems to be fading in and out of your life. If a guy likes you then he will be contacting you in one way or another.

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