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writes:I have a problem I have been married for 6 yrs and have not been in love going on 5. I think I married him for all the wrong reasons but I do love him very much. But here is the thing I met someone else and he is 12 yrs younger than me and I have fallen deeply inlove with him. My husband isn't a very loving person it is hard for him to show me affection and romance, I mean don't get me wrong he tries but just doesn't know how to do it and I try showing him but he just doesn't seem to pick it up. But the other guy shows me everything I have ever wanted to feel..I get affection every day and he is so romantic and makes me feel so wonderful around him, but on the other hand he makes me feel suspicous too because he always has girls calling his cell phone and he says its girls calling for his friend that used to use his phone. I don't know what to do? Maybe I'm just being a idoit and just stay with my husband and be just ok and love him or be happier than I've been in six years and in love but suspicous too? please help... Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 January 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for the ladie that answered my question. I am going to dump the other guy and work things out with my husband thanks for opening my eyes.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 January 2011): Stop wasting your husbands time. Get a divorce so he can find someone he can have a real relationship with.
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reader, Serpico +, writes (7 January 2011):
Sooooo - sounds like you're looking for justification for cheating on your husband.
You're not going to get it here. You claim to have been married 6 years and been out of love for 5? Sounds like you make a real committment to fall out of love in one year after marriage. And now when you start to get attention from another man, you try to use your husbands cell phone ringing as justification for your adultery.
If you cant make your marriage work, get a divorce.
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reader, lija30 +, writes (7 January 2011):
 Sweetie ...come close to the screen ....mm closer.....ummm get a divorce!!! dont sit there and drag your husband around and cheat on him. that is so much disrespect...dont be a whore be a lady and admit its over and done...and move on with your life.... if your husband takes care of you financially and the other guy that shows the affection cant even buy you a soda...then you know what you need to do....drop his butt...and work it out with your husband ...maybe he don't show affection because of your complainng or naggin...I mean if i was a dude ...and somebody was yelling at me or complaining ...or making me feel less of a man...i would want to kiss you or hold you either....you need to find out what you are doing to turn him off......or do both of you guys a favor and head to divorce court...dont waste your husbands time if you think nothing is there....move on..plz....i dont want to see you on the cheaters tv show........*good luck hun*
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