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female
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36-40,
*lady
writes:My fiance wants sex and i don't want it becos it is against my religious belief but i allow him 2 make him happy but at the end i feel so unworthy and it's affecting my christain life
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reader, HDBL  +, writes (7 January 2011):
Ahh... So you don't like being treated like an unpaid whore. If he is your fiance I would question his commitment to you. Because he obviously does not take your committment to God very seriously. He may need to reevaluate what it means to get married. You need to set him straight. Being a Christian you need to find out now if he can handle God being number one in your life. If he new he would not make you choose the way he has.
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reader, dirtball +, writes (6 January 2011):
 You should never allow someone do do something that makes you feel shameful. Sex should be about connection and mutual enjoyment. He needs to respect your beliefs or he's with the wrong person.
If someone pressures you to do something using their feelings for you, or your feelings for them, as "ransom" that's called emotional blackmail. I hope he wasn't this extreme, but my gut tells me that's exactly the case.
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