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anonymous
writes: Am a girl of 20, also a virgin i always feel like having sex but when am with my bf i hate him touching me, kiss or having sex . Pls what is the cause? Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, dancegirl347 +, writes (17 January 2011):
You should not have sex with someone who is not your boyfriend or spouse. Period. If you don't like him touching you or kissing you, maybe you are only meant to be friends.
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reader, Advice_man +, writes (17 January 2011):
Not wanting to have sex with him, i understand...you might be scared that it might hurt but also you are thinking the consequences of getting pregnant, which is good!
But hating his kiss and touch...you don't really love this guy do you? I don't know the reasons you are with him, but love is the number one factor a healthy relationship should have.
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reader, jenrock +, writes (17 January 2011):
you might not be sexually attracted to him, or maybe something happened to you when you were younger with a male that makes you have flashbacks. I understand completely, when i was still a virgin i hated people touching me in any way shape or form. the only person i felt comfortable was my ex, but that's down the toilet.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 January 2011): The cause is simple, you are not into him, get another boyfriend.
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