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I'm attracted to my girlfriend's mom

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Question - (16 January 2011) 2 Answers - (Newest, 16 May 2013)
A male Canada age 30-35, anonymous writes:

i am attracted to my girlfriends mom,anytime i come over she talks to me like im her friend/boyfriend, and tries to hug me anytime she can(not over the top though), i mean like a loving hug not a crappy 1 second one. its a fantasy to have my girlfriends mom and my girlfriend. the other day i was talking about somekind of apparal with my gf, i suggested something and immediatly my gfs mom responded " you would look really good!". she also always touches me too(not in a perverted way), and likes buying me things. she is also divorsed and doesnt have a bf and its just her and my gf in a house, next year my gf goes off to school somewhere else, i have a pretty good relationship with her mom and i am kind of expected to visit and what not when my gf is gone.so... is she into me?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (16 May 2013):

I understand how you feel about this woman. I myself am attracted to my girlfriend's mother who is 18 years older than i. I could never even think anything could ever happen to her and me, being besides that she is my girlfriends mother of course, but also that she is married.

The consequences would be too enormous.

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A male reader, Cerberus_Raphael Sweden +, writes (17 January 2011):

Cerberus_Raphael agony auntWhat does it matter whether or not she is 'into' you? You have a girlfriend! Right now you seem as though you are contemplating cheating on your girlfriend with her own mother! Have the decency to at least realize that this is lust and no good can come from it. If you are thinking of doing anything with her mother, break up with your girlfriend. What you are thinking of doing, what this series of thoughts are guiding you towards will ruin your relationship with your girlfriend, your girlfriend's mother and their mother/daughter relationship with each other if she actually accepts your advances. Stop thinking of her in such a manner and spend more time with your girlfriend, otherwise, leave her and refrain from contacting either of them.

Her actions do not mean that she has any interest in you romantically or even sexually, it just shows that she is happy you are dating her daughter, she is happy that you are making her daughter happy. Do not let delusion make you believe otherwise.

I hope that helps.

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