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writes:Me and my boyfriend have been together for almost 7months. He is married and has a son but he told me he isn't in love with her he said he's in love with me. But he said she would take his son and go to IN and stay with her family and they don't like him. So he wants to keep me a secret again. He said he will tell her whatever he has to. To keep her where he needs her. And he said He would even tell her He loves her and he said he would even let her believe they are trying to work it out and he expects me to take it. I feel like he don't care about me or my feelings. Please help me cause I'm truly in love with him. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 January 2011): “He is married and has a son but he told me he isn't in love with her he said he's in love with me.”
He lied. You’re just no-strings nookie on the side.
“So he wants to keep me a secret again.”
Because as soon as his wife finds out his cover will be blown so he’ll have to dump you and he won’t be getting any from her long loooooooong time, forcing him to find another secret “girlfriend” dumb and desperate enough to let him string her along on lies and empty promises for months on end.
“He said he will tell her whatever he has to. To keep her where he needs her.”
He told you whatever he had to. To keep you where he needs you.
“I feel like he don't care about me or my feelings.”
He don’t. You’re just no-strings nookie on the side.
“Please help me cause I'm truly in love with him.”
If you’re truly in love with this scumbag, the help you need will take years. Get into therapy. You’ve got issues. What type of relationship did you have with your father?
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