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Should I keep looking at her when I talk?

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Question - (16 January 2011) 1 Answers - (Newest, 22 January 2011)
A male United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

i go to college in england and i really like this girl there. one of my best friends likes her too i'm not sure how much and my other best friend really likes her as well but none of them know i like her and i am the only one who knows that my second friend likes her cause he told me on friday and i don't want to loose any of my friends over her.

i have decided that i am going to let her decied who she likes and what not. although over the last few days she has looking at me most of the day and she has been talking to me in person and online.

Does she like me?

the thing is that me and her and a few of mine and her friends were going to go bowling and to the cinema yesterday but she couldn't go and we went without her which she said was ok.

what i need to find out is when i speak to her on facebook or msn whatever tonight i know that she'll ask how it went and i was going to reply along the lines of "it was ok but would've been better if you were there" i want to flirt and giver her a feeling that i may like her but i don't want her to be scared and not want to talk to me anymore because i see her everyday and i don't want it to be awkward between us.

is that a good reply or should i say something else?

also when i am telling a story or just saying something to my friends and her should i keep looking at her or should i look at my other friends and keep looking at her at different times?

i'm sorry that i have rambled on but any answers will help and thank you for your time

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A female reader, angelDlite United Kingdom +, writes (22 January 2011):

angelDlite agony aunthi

just be natural around her, be like you have always been coz she seems to like the way you have been. i think the reply you were thinking of is fine, its nice but not too full on. look at her just naturally, not a good idea to stare at her too much, especially when you are talking to someone else.

do your friends know that you like her? if she was to choose you your friends should just accept it and they are being childish and not good friends to you if they can't accept her (and your) wishes

xx

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