A
male
age
41-50,
*tream
writes:HiI am in a dilemma. I met my girlfriend 2 and a half years ago we dated or two months long distance, fell madly in love and she moved in with me in a flat at my area. We ended up arguing and on off splitting up. I stuck with her and chased and chased. She aleays said she wanted to be with me and loved me. But i needed to get over our relationship to start a new one with her in the future. Believe me it broke my heart. Before her i was a complete player but now i was in love and smitten. Never looked at another girl. Before her i cheated on every girl i went with. Not proud of it.She had a lot of partners and they never lasted.Anyway after 2 yrs of on off relationship. She totally ended it and cut all ties. I was gutted and still chased. In this time she dated an slept with a guy or guys. I didn't sleep with anyone but had 2 drunken fondles to try get over her. Didn't work. She eventually came back in contact when she had trouble in her life. I gladfully helped. Then she attempted Suicide which i eventually saved her. She has been in a mental health unit diagnosed with paranoid schizophrenia.Should i forgive her as i have done everything for her while she has treated me like dirt. The hospital staff have called me a saint a martyr etc. But i do it because i care. She is so cold to me.I found out she had slept with a guy or guys but she says she isn't bothered.How do i get over it? Or should i?I will always keep helping her through her illnesd tho.Please help!
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reader, angelDlite +, writes (16 January 2011):
 hi
:( the poor girl. she probably treats you this way because her illness then. you can get support to help you to help her. ask at the hospital she goes to if they can put you in touch with the relevant support group (or find somewhere yourself by googling) this condition makes what you are going through more than just a 'relationship problem' that can be overcome with forgiving, common sense, mutual respect. think you need professional input here. its really commendable that you are a reformed player and that you want to help someone in need. she is fortunate to have a friend like you. try not to let this be at the detriment of your own mental health though. get help
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